
The Continuum Concept
In Search of Happiness Lost
After five visits to the Yequana of the Amazon jungle in South America,
Jean Liedloff wrote a book about her belief that the mental, emotional
and physical vitality of the Yequana was due to their child rearing practices.
She observed that the Yequana, unlike most Western mothers, were in constant
physical contact with their babies until the babies started moving around
on their own. By day mothers carried their babies in slings. This way
the baby had access to the breast and could nurse at will. By night each
family shared a single sleeping place, allowing the baby's attachment
to the mother to proceed uninterrupted.
Liedloff noticed that the babies were not the center of their mothers'
attention. The mothers would stop and lovingly address the baby's signals;
otherwise they went about tending to household, village and social needs,
and the infant was simply along for the ride. She noted, too, that Yequana
parents and other adults didn't initiate contact or activity with their
children after babyhood, but were readily available when the children
needed them. Children spent most of their time with their peers, as did
the adults with theirs. Because Yequana parents placed such great faith
in a child's instinct for self- preservation, the children enjoyed a great
deal of freedom and displayed a corresponding level of autonomous functioning
rarely seen in children in the West.
She decided to call her book The Continuum Concept, to indicate
that the children of the Yequana were happy, competent and self-assured
because the Yequana were still in touch with their "continuum," or the
evolutionary knowledge, with which all humans are born, of the way human
beings are supposed to live.
The Continuum Concept, which is in its twenty-sixth printing,
has been translated from its original English version into numerous
other languages and has sold hundreds of thousands of copies throughout
the world.
Praise for The Continuum Concept
“If the world could be saved by a book, this just might be the book.”--John
Holt
Quotes from The Continuum Concept
"Another obstacle to the continuum in our way of life is our view that
we own our children and consequently have the right to treat them any
way we choose, short of battering or killing them. They have no legal
right not to be tortured by longing for their mothers and left to scream
their agony unheeded. The fact that they are human and capable of suffering
does not give them any legal rights, as it does adults made to suffer
cruelties by other adults. The fact that their torment in infancy also
prejudices their ability to enjoy the rest of their lives and is, therefore,
immeasurable injury done them, does not help their legal position.
"Babies cannot articulate complaints. They cannot go to an authority
and protest. They cannot even connect the agony they have endured with
its cause; they are happy to see their mother when she at last arrives.
"In our society, rights are granted not because one suffers injury but
because one complains of it. Only the most rudimentary rights are accorded
animals, and in very few countries. Likewise, indigenous primitives, who
have no medium through which to complain, ae given none of the rights
their articulate conquerors grant one another.
"Custom has left the treatment of infants to maternal discretion. But
should every mother be free to neglect her child, to slap him for crying,
to feed him when she wants, not when he wants, to leave him suffering
alone in a room for hours, days, months, when it is his very nature to
be in the midst of life?
"The societies for the prevention of cruelty to babies and children
concern themselves only with the grossest sort of abuse. Our society must
be helped to see the gravity of the crime against infants that is today
considered normal treatment.
. . .
"Without waiting to change society at all, we can behave correctly toward
our infants, and give them a sound personal base from which to deal with
whatever situations they meet.
"Instead of depriving them so that they have only one hand with which
to cope with the outside world, while the other is busy with inner conflicts,
we can set them on their feet with both hands ready to take on outside
problems."
Table of Contents of The Continuum Concept
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